People who are in pain do painful things. People who are frightened are aggressive, often loud, bang their chest, selfish. They’re really interested in having a lot of fame and fortune in the world because deep within them is a scared little child that is just trying to feel safe. And
they have hypnotized and brainwashed themselves to thinking if they get the yacht and all the social media likes and a big house and a high position in the world, they’re going to be loved and feel safer.
What I suggest to you is play a different game of leadership. Go into yourself and explore that pain. Ask you why you might not be compassionate to people. Ask yourself may be why you’re not expressing your truest self to your friends, coworkers, strangers.
Ask yourself, “Am I insecure?” Ask yourself why you’re not a merchant of kindness. Ask yourself why you’re not the most positive person in every room that you’re in, and start exploring the insecurity, exploring the repressed pain, exploring the hurt. So you leave limbic hijack and living a life designed to make you just feel safe in the world, and you actually go into the world as a leader and as a hero because it’s the giver that wins the most.