In my book, The Greatness Guide, which I wrote many years ago, I quoted Carl Jung and I just wrote it in a chapter, “Love your irritations.” In that chapter of The Greatness Guide, I say, Carl Jung taught us, beneath your irritations is the opportunity for growth. Every time you feel insecure and you need to use I and advertise how great you are or successful are you and you turn the conversation onto you, if you’re really wise, you’ll go deeper and you’ll say, “What is the hole within me that I haven’t filled that I’m trying to fill from external validation?”